RAISING HER CONFIDENTLY | Connecting with Teens, Parenting Styles, Family Communication, Raising Teen Daughters
Do you want to have open communication with your teen daughter? Do you find yourself up late at night constantly thinking about how to talk to your teen or why she’s not opening up to you? Do you wake up with confident intentions only to feel confused and frustrated when you get 1-word answers from your daughter or instead of the deep conversations you hoped to have, you end up in a yelling match? Hi, I’m Jeannie. I think back to when I was 13. I was that teenage girl you are googling about! Rebellious, hard to figure out, “hard-headed” as my mom would call me. She even said, “I don’t even know who you are anymore!” Several years later, I too found myself raising young teens. I too felt grieved by the loss of my sweet talkative little girl! I wanted her to come to me about anything even if she was scared and listen to my advice. My passion for healthy families as a former educator, a homeschooling family for several years, and a zeal to impact young teen girls has led me to train in the Coach Model and partner with moms like you and guide them to create safe, healthy relationships with their teens. In this podcast, I share tools and resources to help improve communication with your teen girl and strengthen your relationship with her. I’m providing you ways to talk to your teen through relationship-building exercises to make intentional connections, establish boundaries to create that safe space, and build a trust-worthy community of healthy friends and influence to confidently get you through this season of raising a teen girl. So grab that oat milk latte and let’s raise her confidently together! You can find me here: Work with me: www.talktyourteengirl.com Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisingherconfidently/ Podcast: www.raisingherconfidently.com
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Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
Wednesday Nov 08, 2023
Have you ever had your teen girl share a piece of information almost sounding like a fact coming from her but doesn’t quite sound like her?
Or maybe you overheard your teenage daughter talking with her friends or siblings about a specific topic and wondered where her comments are coming from?
This day of the internet but more than likely social media as your daughter’s source of news has you worried about forming her ideals around something that may not necessarily be true or be half-truths.
Today I give you 3 tips to help Equip her to discern information and come up with a well informed opinion.
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it. Who are in the weeds too. Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls. We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of. You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Also, Become An Insider And Get Weekly Emails From Me
With Tips On Creating Open Communication, Establishing A Safe Space And Preparing Your Teen Girl To Make Good Choices.
Sign Up At: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Monday Nov 06, 2023
Monday Nov 06, 2023
Mama,
You are here searching for answers on how to raise your teenage daughter in this tumultuous season.
You want to understand your girl in order to connect with her better because you are feeling disconnected with her.
You are feeling lonely in this journey of raising a teen girl you frankly don’t really know anymore.
As I celebrate 50K downloads on Raising Her Confidently, I am sharing with you the Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes on the podcast. Go grab your coffee, and your fellow mom of teen girl, you’ll want to take some notes on this!
Resources from this episode:
Episode 15
Episode 55
Episode 25
Episode 3
Episode 2
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it. Who are in the weeds too. Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls. We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of. You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Also, Become An Insider And Get Weekly Emails From Me
With Tips On Creating Open Communication, Establishing A Safe Space And Preparing Your Teen Girl To Make Good Choices.
Sign Up At: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
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Wednesday Nov 01, 2023
Wednesday Nov 01, 2023
Mama,
I am bringing some Brene Brown wisdom today!
You want to know how to help your teen girl acknowledge and express her feelings with you.
You want her to confide in you as her mother with the hard to discuss topics.
Getting your teen to acknowledge what she is feeling is a task in itself. She has a difficult time expressing what she is feeling with you, and it’s equally frustrating for you, her mom, to know where or how to guide her.
I am digging into one of my favorite reads, Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown. I’m sharing some important points she makes about increasing yours and your daughter’s emotional vocabulary for her own well-being.
Resource reference in this episode:
Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it. Who are in the weeds too. Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls. We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of. You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Also, Become An Insider And Get Weekly Emails From Me
With Tips On Creating Open Communication, Establishing A Safe Space And Preparing Your Teen Girl To Make Good Choices.
Sign Up At: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Have some questions and ready to move forward?
Book a free 15-minute Discover Call here
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Monday Oct 30, 2023
Monday Oct 30, 2023
Mama,
Your darling daughter is starting to show signs of “the change”. She is entering the tween stage. She is starting puberty!
You are likely not ready for this and you sure aren’t thinking about having those talks quite yet. I’m sorry to tell you mama, this is the time. You can’t avoid or prolong it. Your 10, 11, 12 year old needs her mama to spill the beans about what’s going on with her body.
No worries, friend, I’m sharing 3 tips for having the talk with your tween girl. AND mamas if you have an older teenage daughter, you may want to listen to this anyways because there may be some holes we need to patch up to move your girl along the road of puberty.
Resource referenced in episode:
The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls
Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you?
Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl?
Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out?
SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!!
A 4-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU!
You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl,
Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage,
and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter
Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn’t need to hide anything from you!
Plus, you’ll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat....
SIGN UP HERE!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
Wednesday Oct 25, 2023
Mama.
You try your best to understand your teenage daughter’s roller coaster of emotions.
At times you find yourself reacting totally off from the emotions they are displaying.
You find it difficult to even help them process emotions they themselves don’t understand, and your left feeling like the bad guy.
In this episode, I leave you with 5 helpful ways you can deal with the waves of emotions come from your teen girl.
Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and create a safe space for her to come to so she gets to just be her true self?
I know what it feels like to worry about whether she is keeping secrets from me, or if she’ll ever come to me about the bigger, hard things.
Imagine if you had a plan to improve your conversations with your daughter so that she can come to you about anything even if she’s scared.
That's why I offer Mom Mentoring calls!
I teach you how to improve open communication & prepare your girl to make good choices
You will be able to follow a plan to set the stage for healthy conversations and equip yourself with connection-building questions to ask your girl.
You will walk away with a communication plan to confidently implement and get your daughter talking to you!!
So if you're ready to improve the way you and your daughter talk to each other so you both can connect and know what’s really going on in her life, along with accountability and support…
I see you Mama! You’ve been listening to my podcast but need a little more, so i’d like to extend this offer to you.
Let’s get on a free discovery call to understand and get clear on your next steps!
Head on over to https://www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring and find your step toward creating a whole new level of connection with your girl and get her talking to you!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Monday Oct 23, 2023
Monday Oct 23, 2023
Is your teenage daughter pulling away from you?
you spend a lot of time with your girl but often feel out of touch with what’s going on in life
You love watching her grow more independent but sometimes that independence means she doesn’t need me or want me in the same room
You want to create and sustain a close relationship with your daughter, but it seems more difficult the more days that pass by.
Mama, I feel you. Today I encourage you with 3 things you can do when you feel your teen girl pulling away.
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it. Who are in the weeds too. Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls. We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another.
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of. You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Wednesday Oct 18, 2023
Wednesday Oct 18, 2023
Oh no she did not! Your teenage daughter knew your rules for dating, but decided to do it anyway behind your back.
You just found out her “friend” you’ve been seeing hanging around your teen girl is actually her boyfriend.
Before you lose it mama, I give you 3 tips to approach your sneaky girl about having a boyfriend before she’s even allowed to date.
Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you?
Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl?
Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out?
SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!!
A 4-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU!
You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl,
Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage,
and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter
Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn’t need to hide anything from you!
Plus, you’ll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat....
SIGN UP HERE!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Monday Oct 16, 2023
Monday Oct 16, 2023
Did you get into a big fight with your teenage daughter and she left mad at you?
You are left crying, hurt and now missing her with regret. You are feeling guilty and alone that you just ruined your relationship with her. With each step you take forward, you feel there is a giant step back.
Mama, it will be okay, you will be okay and I’ll give you 3 reasons why.
Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you?
Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl?
Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out?
SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!!
A 4-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU!
You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl,
Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage,
and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter
Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn’t need to hide anything from you!
Plus, you’ll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat....
SIGN UP HERE!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
Wednesday Oct 11, 2023
Long gone are the days where television held the concerns in captivating our teenage daughter’s attention. Now we are competing with Social Apps like TikTok & Instagram where Influencers who gain millions of followers are now your teen’s wise counsel.
At a very young age, kids become aware of these platforms that are magical and intriguing. Pretty much everyone they know has an account in some or all of these social media platforms.
So it’s not surprising that you, Mom of Teen Girl, are faced with the dilemma most parents face when considering whether your girl should have access to them.
Today I share 3 ways you can be armed to have these conversations around social media with your daughter.
Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you?
Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl?
Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out?
SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!!
A 4-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU!
You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl,
Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage,
and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter
Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn’t need to hide anything from you!
Plus, you’ll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat....
SIGN UP HERE!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Monday Oct 09, 2023
Monday Oct 09, 2023
What happens when your girl does things you don’t agree with?
Does she put on a little more makeup than you would prefer?
Does she pick outfits that have you questioning why she would wear that?
You know your girl is a teenager when she starts to make choices that challenge your own values. They can be political views, gender identity preferences, and the value of faith in her life. Today I give you 5 ways to handle her views, actions, choices and preferences that do not align with yours.
Are you a mama who wishes there was a way to get your teen girl to open up to you and create a safe space for her to come to so she gets to just be her true self?
I know what it feels like to worry about whether she is keeping secrets from me, or if she’ll ever come to me about the bigger, hard things.
Imagine if you had a plan to improve your conversations with your daughter so that she can come to you about anything even if she’s scared.
That's why I offer Mom Mentoring calls!
I teach you how to improve open communication & prepare your girl to make good choices
You will be able to follow a plan to set the stage for healthy conversations and equip yourself with connection-building questions to ask your girl.
You will walk away with a communication plan to confidently implement and get your daughter talking to you!!
So if you're ready to improve the way you and your daughter talk to each other so you both can connect and know what’s really going on in her life, along with accountability and support…
I see you Mama! You’ve been listening to my podcast but need a little more, so i’d like to extend this offer to you.
Let’s get on a free discovery call to understand and get clear on your next steps!
Head on over to https://www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring and find your step toward creating a whole new level of connection with your girl and get her talking to you!
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero