RAISING HER CONFIDENTLY | Connecting with Teens, Parenting Styles, Family Communication, Raising Teen Daughters

12\\ 3 Actions You Can Take to Create a Space Where Your Teenage Daughter Feels Safe to Talk

Hi Friend,
 
Teens want a place where they can be themselves, talk openly about what they are feeling, and share what's on their mind.  They want a place to feel safe in.   
 
Open communication is made and trust is built in places that are safe for our teens.  In today’s episode I will be sharing a Bible verse I use for instruction to create this safe space for my teenage daughter and 3 tangible and applicable ways you can implement now to create your own space with your daughter.
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
  
 

11\\ How to Connect With Your Teen Daughter Better Without Having to Figure it Out

Hi Friend,
 
We all want to connect our teen daughters, but find it hard to figure out how to do it.  Sometimes it’s hard to bridge the gap between you two consistently.  Something might work and then it doesn’t.   Your desire is to show her how much you care about everything in her life.  You want a healthy relationship with her.
 
Today, I’m bringing you back to the basics.  In order to connect, you need to love her.  I mean, I know you love her, but I’m talking where SHE knows and receives your love.  Today we are digging in an oldie but still relevant goodie, the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman and how knowing her love language can actually bring you closer faster.
 
Links to resources mentioned in this episode: 
The 5 Love Languages:  The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman
The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secrets to Loving Teens Effectively by Gary Chapman
5 Love Languages Quiz
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
 
 

10\\ 3 Ways to Get More Than 1 Word Out of Your Teenage Daughter Today!

Hey mama, 
 
Talking to your teens can be very challenging.  Parenting each teen is different, but there is that one that no matter what you try, you just can't seem to get more than a shrug or one word out of them. You want them to open up to you with what is really going on in your teen daughter's life but you aren't quite sure how to reach her.
 
Today I am sharing 3 ways to get more than 1 word out of your daughter which you can start using today!  I am sharing ways you can close that bridge of communication with her, and learn how to ask the right questions that start open conversations.  Isn't that what you want in your relationship with your teenage daughter?   
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

09\\ THE #1 WAY TO SHOW YOUR TEEN DAUGHTER YOU’RE HERE FOR HER

Hey sis!
 
Today I am sharing what I believe is the number one way to show your daughter you are here for her; for anything and everything - The hard and not-so-hard conversations.
 
It's being vulnerable!!  It's the key to having open conversations with your teen daughter.
 
In this episode, I am going to share how vulnerability has help my relationship with my teenaged daughter.  What vulnerability can do to help bring you and your teen girl closer in relationship and in deep conversations.  How vulnerability will impact your relationship with your daughter so that she will want to go to you even if she is scared.  And start the path towards open communication with her. 
 
Link to Brene Brown book The Gifts of Imperfection
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
 

08\\ Understanding the Generation Your Teen is Growing Up in and the Parenting Challenges You are Facing

Hi friend!  
 
We are talking Generation Z (and gen alpha for our tween girl moms) and your teens growing up in this generation.  We will dig into what your teen girl thinks about, what matters to your teenage daughter, her mentality and passions.  We will discuss how this helps us understand the challenges we face as we raise them through a generation of social media, technology, social justice and more!
 
Link referred to in this episode: WORK WITH ME
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

07\\ 5 Ways to Build A Trust-Worthy Relationship with Your Teen Daughter

Hey Mama!
 
Trust is so easy to have but once lost, it's so hard to rebuild.  Today I am talking about 5 ways you can build a trust-worthy relationship with your teen daughter.  You want to understand your daughter and she wants you to understand her as well.  Trust is at the center of it all. 
 
Whether you have an amazing relationship with your daughter or one that ebs and flows, we desire one that is built on trust and so does your daughter no matter what she says to you or shows you.  She wants someone who knows has her back and that she truly can be herself. She wants someone who is in her corner and is confident in it.  You do! Now how can we show her that?
 
In this episode, I give you 5 ways I’ve continually and most times consistently implement in building a trusting relationship with my daughter.
 
Are you ready to tune in?
 
Link referred to in this episode: WORK WITH ME
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
 

06\\ Family Word of the Year and 4 Reasons Why Your Teen Needs to Have One

Hey friend,
 
You’ve probably heard or seen people claiming their Word of the Year and declaring it on Social Media.  Maybe you have a personal Word of the Year and haven’t really thought about having one for the family.
 
In this episode,  we are going to talk about what a Word of the Year is, why it matters, and how it can be a focal point to help your teens be on the same page. How a simple word can help your teenage daughter be anchored, be responsible, be held accountable and communicate better.
 
Are you ready to declare yours? Come & listen in!
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

05\\ MOM GUILT: 3 Reasons Why You Are So Hard On Yourself When It Comes To Raising Your Teen Daughter, How It Gets In The Way Of Your Relationship With Her And How To Get Rid Of The Guilt

Hey Mama!
Are you guilty of mom guilt too?  It can definitely stop us in our tracks, guide our decisions and our reactions towards our teenage daughters. It's a cycle that doesn't seem to end. 
 
This episode is going to unload some heavy stuff that may be uncomfortable to listen to, but hear me out.  I had to come to the same realization as well for myself in order to shift my perspective on how I parent my teen daughter. 
 
I'm sharing 3 reasons why we have them, how they actually get in the way of a healthy relationship with your daughter and how to release it or at least simmer it down.   You'll leave with direction on how to lay the guilt down so you can raise your girl with what she needs most,  a guilt-free YOU!
 
Link to book Untangled by Dr Lisa Damour, Ph.D
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero

04\\ 5 Ways To Have Fun with Your Teenage Daughter

Hey mama,
In this episode we are talking having fun with your girl.  It’s time to reconnect.  You may have asked yourself,  "what is she into?"  Or have even said, "I don’t know what she wants to do."  Don’t worry!  I will be giving you 5 ways to have fun with your teenage daughter!! Having fun is key to connecting better with her.  You'll let down her guard a bit and show her how much you care.  What matters to her, matters to you!! Plus, you can show her how much fun YOU really are!
Grab your notebook, you’ll want to write them down!
 
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
You can find me here:
Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
 
 

03\\ What to do When Your Teen Girl Starts To Freak Out Over Everything Without Losing It Yourself

HI Mama,
I am answering a question from a fellow mama I work with who asked, "What can I do when my daughter freaks out over everything?".
Freak outs get the best of us!  They happen.  It's emotional. It's offensive.  It's disrespectful, and straight out rude! You can find yourself deep in your daughter's emotional storm, and feel bad about it later.
Your teen girl may know how to push your buttons, but you can equip yourself with the 4 strategies that get you off that crazy cycle.    AND help your daughter get through hers.
The drama doesn't have to get bigger than it is!
Link to resources mentioned in the episode:
Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown
 
Are you looking for a supportive mom community?
The common thing I ask the moms I work with to be most valuable is having a community with other moms who get it.  Who are in the weeds too.  Moms who are also in the season of raising tween & teen girls.  We need each other to vent, laugh, encourage and support on another. 
If that’s you too, I have a free mom community I invite you to be a part of.  You can join going to www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
 
You can find me here:
Learn: www.jeanniebaldomero.com
Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/
Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero